Hello beautiful people! Did you know that you’re very special? There is no other person in this world like you. You deserve to be loved not only by those around you but by the most important person in your life — YOU.

   

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Never be ashamed of who you are. You have to accept that not everyone is going to love you back, that’s why its most important to love yourself. It’s not about being what everyone wants you to be, it’s about being yourself and finding someone who truly loves you for what you are. The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are. If you always accept and be comfortable for your flaws, God will never use your flaws against you. don’t never change just to please people, Love God & Love yourself. In any circumstances in life, always learn to love yourself, that’s the only way to make out the best of whatever problem you are dealing with, loving and believing in yourself is all you need to get through. Start each day by telling yourself something really positive. How well you handled a situation, how lovely you look today. Anything that will make you smile. Surround yourself with people who love and encourage you. Let them remind you just how amazing you are. End all Toxic Relationships Seriously. Anyone who makes you feel anything less than amazing doesn’t deserve to be a part of your life. Treat others with love and respect. It makes us feel better about ourselves when we treat others the way we hope to be treated. That doesn’t mean everybody will always repay the favor, but that’s their problem not yours, Forgive yourself. You know that thing you did one time (or maybe a few times) that made you feel bad, embarrassed, ashamed? It’s time to let that go. You can’t change the things you have done in the past but you can control your future. Look at it as a learning experience and believe in your ability to change & do better.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

 

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To stay happy, We must stop complaining about the troubles we have and learn to be thankful for the troubles we don’t have to deal with.

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Being thankful is easy. Be conscious how you view the world around you. Stop being a victim. Catch yourself when you complain about something. Ask yourself: why do I complain about this? Am I wasting energy on this and can I do something about the situation? You will see things work out better if you take action with a positive attitude. Find something you can appreciate, and start building from there.

Once you start appreciating all the things you have, or the things you do not have, you will see and experience more things to be thankful for.

Some people complain all the time about the things that are not working in their lives. Guess what will happen, where do you think their focus is? How will they view the world? What’s their perspective on the things and people they see around them?

My experience is that you are literally wasting your energy when you complain. I’ve done it for a while and I can tell you it doesn’t work, nothing will change. Why don’t you start using your energy for some positive action? If you don’t like a situation in your life, change it to something better. And another thing: If your focus is only on the future, hoping your situation will improve later on without taking the necessary steps, you are not living now but in a dream world. If you always look forward to the next vacation, the next paycheck, the next job, or when the children will leave the house, maybe your retirement, you are missing a lot of what is happening right now. Before you know it you live is over without ever being satisfied. Now, how much fun is that?

 

Oh, when I look around and see how good God has been to me; when I look around and see my family and friends are alright now; when I look around and recognize that among all the violence and destruction, Jesus has been a fence all around me; when I look around and recognize that it was nothing but God grace that I am here today;

ALL OF MY GOOD DAYS OUTWEIGH MY BAD DAYS AND I WON’T COMPLAIN. Not only won’t I complain but I can’t complain. I haven’t been through enough to justify complaining. I haven’t had enough trials and tribulations to cause complaining.

I’ve been down but I’ve never been out. I’ve seen bad times but I’ve never been alone. Even when I was at my worst and Jesus had to reach way down, He still picked me up. When I thought I had no where else to go, Jesus showed me a way out. When I felt all alone Jesus said, “Lo I am with you always”. When I felt that no one cared Jesus died for me. Ain’t God all right?

Aren’t you glad that Jesus died for you? Aren’t you glad that He gave you a reason not to complain? Aren’t you glad that Jesus paid it all? Please don’t forget to follow, like & comment on my blog.                                                                             

Stay away from negative people!

 Positive-ThinkingStop letting other people’s negative attitudes influence yours. This may mean we need to stop hanging around with people who do nothing but spout negative stuff. We can’t afford to do this when our goal is to become more positive. The negative people in our life aren’t going to like it when we stop participating in negativity. Just remember that birds of a feather really do flock together. Learn to focus on the positives in your life and cut outALL the negatives. Life will always present you with distractions. Stay strong & Keep your focus. don’t feel pressured to sit and listen to a negative person. Their negative energy will seep into your own life and affect your attitude. Set limits and put some distance between yourself and this individual. If you must be around a negative person, try to keep your interactions short. You can’t control the negative behavior, but you can control whether or not you engage.
People who complain about everything will never enhance your life. They don’t offer solutions, only point out problems. They will knock your ideas and suck you into their emotional pity party, Your happiness and well being are too important to let anyone’s negative opinion or rude comments bring you down or affect how you view yourself. Remain positive and begin to limit your time with the negative individuals in your life.

Thank you God for letting me see another day I am truly blessed and highly favored.

th (17)Thank you God for giving me another day, another chance to become a better individual, another chance to give and experience love. Thank you God for giving me health, for the food you provide, for the awareness you have awaken in me…Thank you for the energy that feeds my soul, the sun that warms our bodies and the air that fills our lungs… Because of you I believe in the good without the bad and the ugly, because of you I am learning to love and accept myself, because of you I believe in believing. My source, stay connected to me today and always, for I need you in order to fullfil my spiritual tasks…God, show me how to love myself, to be able to love others. Help me become the type of person that I would like to befriend, help me forgive myself and forgive others… God, make me a channel of your energy and help me understand. I thank you God for giving me another day, another unused opportunity to do it right. Thank You God for my famiily and the money we do have.

(SPEAKING THINGS INTO EXISTENCE)

Today is another day to be grateful about something in your life. We must remember that words have power and you have the ability to speak positive things into existence, Speak words of life over your situation.

God can turn all types of situations around,The words you speak today create the future you’ll have tomorrow. Believe for the best and speak the best. Hebrews 11:1 c7716dc553f101123577ae7307206fcf.jpg

Name It & Claim It: The Importance of Speaking Your Dreams and Desires Into Existence                                                             

Dream Big – Hope Big – Believe Big – Speak Big – Receive Big                                                                                                       When you trust in the Lord, you’ll feel as if the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders. The pressure’s off you now and on God, and he can handle it perfectly.

God will make something beautiful out of  your life, but he needs you to trust in him to do it.

Relationship abuse is a pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors used to maintain power and control over a former or current intimate partner. Abuse can be emotional, financial, sexual or physical and can include threats, isolation, and intimidation. Abuse tends to escalate over time.

AbuseHasNoPlaceInLove.jpgDid you know that an average of three women die every day in the United States at the hands of their husbands or partners? Did you know that every nine seconds a woman in the USA is assaulted or beaten? Did you know that around the world, at least one in every three women has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused during her lifetime? Did you know that domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women—more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined? Did you know that studies suggest that up to ten million children witness some form of domestic violence annually? Did you know that nearly one in five teenage girls who have been in a relationship, said a boyfriend threatened violence or self-harm if presented with a breakup? Did you know that mental and emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse?

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My abusive relationship lasted for a little over two years  back in 2007, In the time we were together, this man, who happens to be someone i love & trust with my life, He mentally and emotionally abused me. He would do things such as tell me he was ashamed of me, yet, that he loved me, then he would hit me & make me do things to him and tell me that No one will ever want me or love, He had cheated on me right in front of my face and he threatened to kill me in if i ever leave him.

Why did I stay? Well, I saw the good, and I simply loved him. But, I also stayed because on a good day he would make me laugh we will get along so good, Once he start that drinking  things will just turn left, Yes, I understand the drinking was part of his abusive, controlling, narcissistic, manipulative behavior, while I was in it, So  much more things had took place of me staying in that abusive relationship for the past 2 years, So many times he almost took my life So glad God saved me and changed my life around. If you are in an abusive relationship try your best to get out of it- keep on praying, and keep on fighting your way out of it don’t never be afraid to ask questions and seek help. Most of don’t never give up.                                                                                                                                                                

Conflicting Emotions – Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship 

  • Fear: Your friend may be afraid of what will happen if they decide to leave the relationship. If your friend has been threatened by their partner, family or friends, they may not feel safe leaving.
  • Believing Abuse is Normal: If your friend doesn’t know what a healthy relationship looks like, perhaps from growing up in an environment where abuse was common, they may not recognize that their relationship is unhealthy.
  • Fear of Being Outed: If your friend is LGBTQ+ and has not yet come out to everyone, their partner may threaten to reveal this secret. Being outed may feel especially scary for young people who are just beginning to explore their sexuality.
  • Embarrassment: It’s probably hard for your friend to admit that they’ve been abused. They may feel they’ve done something wrong by becoming involved with an abusive partner. They may also worry that their friends and family will judge them.
  • Low Self-esteem: If your friend’s partner constantly puts them down and blames them for the abuse, it can be easy for your friend to believe those statements and think that the abuse is their fault.
  • Love: Your friend may stay in an abusive relationship hoping that their abuser will change. Think about it — if a person you love tells you they’ll change, you want to believe them. Your friend may only want the violence to stop, not for the relationship to end entirely.

Pressure

  • Social/Peer Pressure: If the abuser is popular, it can be hard for a person to tell their friends for fear that no one will believe them or that everyone will take the abuser’s side.
  • Cultural/Religious Reasons: Traditional gender roles can make it difficult for young women to admit to being sexually active and for young men to admit to being abused. Also, your friend’s culture or religion may influence them to stay rather than end the relationship for fear of bringing shame upon their family.
  • Pregnancy/Parenting: Your friend may feel pressure to raise their children with both parents together, even if that means staying in an abusive relationship. Also, the abusive partner may threaten to take or harm the children if your friend leaves.

Distrust of Adults or Authority

  • “It’s Just Puppy Love” Adults often don’t believe that teens really experience love. So, if something goes wrong in the relationship, your friend may feel like they have no adults to turn to or that no one will take them seriously.
  • Distrust of Police: Many teens and young adults do not feel that the police can or will help them, so they don’t report the abuse.
  • Language Barriers/Immigration Status: If your friend is undocumented, they may fear that reporting the abuse will affect their immigration status. Also, if their first language isn’t English, it can be difficult to express the depth of their situation to others.

Reliance on the Abusive Partner

  • Lack of Money: Your friend may have become financially dependent on their abusive partner. Without money, it can seem impossible for them to leave the relationship.
  • Nowhere to Go: Even if they could leave, your friend may think that they have nowhere to go or no one to turn to once they’ve ended the relationship. This feeling of helplessness can be especially strong if the person lives with their abusive partner.
  • Disability: If your friend is physically dependent on their abusive partner, they can feel that their well-being is connected to the relationship. This dependency could heavily influence his or her decision to stay in an abusive relationship.

    What Can I Do?

    If you have friends or family members who are in unhealthy or abusive relationships, the most important thing you can do is be supportive and listen to them. Please don’t judge! Understand that leaving an unhealthy or abusive relationship is never easy.

    Try to let your friend know that they have options. Invite them to check out resources like loveisrespect.org, even if they stay in the abusive relationship. To learn more, check out our other tips on helping a friend.

 

 

“Keep Believing in your Miracle. Don’t quit before your miracle.

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Because you are so close, refuse to give up. The sad thing is that most people give up when they are on the edge of their breakthrough. Most people give up just

before the things they believed and prayed for is about to come to pass. When the heat is turned up is when many give up.

But you cannot give up now! You are about to walk into the greatest season of your life. You are on the edge of a breakthrough! If you stay faithful, God will do what He said! If you stay faithful you will reap a harvest!

 

“And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”

Praise Him like you would if you just got your miracle! Praise Him like you would if you just received your breakthrough! Your praise will accelerate your miracle. It will accelerate the change you have been believing for. It will accelerate your breakthrough! You are so close. It may be your next praise that causes you to enter into your breakthrough so give Him your best praise!

 

Your Breakthrough is Coming!